Abigail, wife of Nabal

Abigail, So David received from her hand that which she had brought him. Then he said to her, “Go up in peace to your house. Behold, I have listened to your voice, and have granted your request.”

Abigail the wife of Nabal

So David received from her hand that which she had brought him. Then he said to her, “Go up in peace to your house. Behold, I have listened to your voice, and have granted your request.”
Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail "Their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives....And David's two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite" Shmuel 1 30 3-5

Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail

“Their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives….And David’s two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite” Shmuel 1 30 3-5

Abigail, the wife of Nabal the Carmelite, was a resident of the town of Maon in the region of Judah. Nabal was among the wealthy individuals of the area, as described in the opening of the story: “Now the name of the man was Nabal, and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding and a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings, and he was of the house of Caleb” (1 Samuel 25:3)

After Nabal’s death, Abigail became the wife of King David and bore him a son named Chileab (also known as Daniel according to Chronicles), known in some traditions as “Daluyah” (Δαλουια).

 

Background and Summary of the Story:

 

The story unfolds with King David, who was fleeing from King Saul, arriving in the region of Maon in the desert of Judah. David was a local leader who protected the inhabitants, farmers, and shepherds from lawless bandits. He requested compensation or support for his efforts in safeguarding the residents. Alternatively, some interpretations depict David leading a group of armed men or raiders, providing protection to the shepherds and demanding payment for their services.

During a feast celebrating the sheep shearing at Nabal’s property on Mount Carmel, David sent ten of his young men to request provisions and payment for their protection of Nabal’s shepherds. However, Nabal insulted David’s men and contemptuously refused their request. Upon hearing Nabal’s response, David was infuriated and decided to seek vengeance on Nabal.

The news of David’s intention reached Abigail, who immediately took action without informing her husband. She prepared a generous gift of provisions, including bread, wine, sheep, grains, and other supplies, and rode out to meet David. Abigail’s wise and eloquent speech to David persuaded him to reconsider his plan for vengeance, and he was moved by her words and her understanding of the situation. Abigail urged David not to take matters into his own hands and assured him that God would handle the situation.

David was impressed by Abigail’s wisdom and virtue and recognized that her intervention had prevented him from committing a rash act of violence. He praised her and accepted her gift, acknowledging that her actions had been a blessing from God. Abigail returned to her home, where she found Nabal enjoying a feast, and she chose to inform him of the danger that had been averted.

When Nabal heard Abigail’s account, he was so overcome with shock that his heart failed him, and he became like a stone. Ten days later, Nabal died. David then sent a proposal to Abigail, asking her to become his wife. Abigail humbly agreed and was eventually taken by David as his wife.

Comparison with the Story of David and Bathsheba:

The two stories, that of Abigail and Nabal and that of David and Bathsheba, share several similarities. Both stories involve David’s interactions with beautiful women. Both women return to their homes after their initial encounter with David, and both become David’s wives after the death of their previous husbands.

However, there are significant differences between the two stories. In the story of Abigail, it is God who brings about Nabal’s death, while in the story of Bathsheba, David’s actions lead to the death of Uriah. Additionally, David’s intention to marry Abigail is not depicted as morally problematic, whereas his actions with Bathsheba and the subsequent events involving Uriah are morally controversial.

The comparison between the two stories provides insights into David’s character, his relationships, and the ethical complexities of his actions as portrayed in the biblical narrative.